I have a book that puts very nicely what responsibility is, but it has a
copyright on it, and I'm a stickler for keeping copyrights, if I know
about them. This link,
Teaching Responsibility,
has some wonderful things to read which will help leaders be better
able to explain and guide children into understanding Responsibility.
Demonstrate the importance of doing your part with a 3-legged stool.
While it is possible, with extra effort, to sit with only one or two
legs, all legs are important for stability.
Activities could include a trust walk or playing a game where each team
or person has a responsibility that only he is allowed to perform. For
instance, teach the positions of soccer, basketball, baseball, or
football. You could build something, but each team builds a part, and
then it gets put together. Teach them to take pride in doing their best
with the responsibility they have been given, and how good it feels to
do one's part in a group.
Ask what's important to them. Peace? Winning a game? Getting their
turn? A clean house? Explain that taking responsibility is doing what
they can to make these goals come to pass. If they want a turn, they
need to let others have a turn. if they want to win a game, they need
to practice at home as well as at team practice.
Have everyone bring 3 pieces of small trash. Have them walk around a
small yard and nonchalantly drop each piece of trash around the yard.
When everyone's finished, have them look at the difference only 3 pieces
of trash makes. Then clean up the yard and throw away the trash
properly.
Take responsibility for your corner of a clean world. Have each boy
weigh the trash in their house for one day, then times it by 356 for a
year. Visit a local dump and recycling plant. Talk about how to
recycle.
Talk about the responsibility of their teacher or mother or coach or
milking a cow. Then discuss what would happen if they did not take
their responsibility seriously. Talk about what responsibilities the
boys have at school and at home. Talk about the effects of their being
responsible or not responsible.